Now, I know when you read this title you were like, “She’s got it all wrong! You can’t just say ✌🏽 to the petty! You can’t just stop being petty, girl!” To be honest, we’re always gonna have that little voice in our head telling us to “Be petty, BE SHADY🌴 Throw the whole tree, girl!!” Don’t worry, I’m not here to help you get rid of it, I’m just here to help you deal with it and control it. We all know people will always have something to say, especially when you’re doing something good with your life! Everyone feels the need to put in their input on your dreams. I don’t know why, but humans are like that. But let me be more specific so you can relate: have you ever been working so hard on your craft, you just got everything in place, and everything’s going good, and now you’re just taking off? Then there’s that one person that ALWAYS has to bash what you do! They have no reason to dislike you; they just don’t like you. Hell, they don’t even know you and they still don’t like you! Everyone in their presence won’t like you because that one girl is telling people false facts about you, which means their perception of you will change, and not in a good way. At this point, you just wanna serve this girl a plate of pettiness and send her back to where she came from. Sadly…SADLY, you can’t do that! Let me tell you why: you have so much going for you, boo! You really wanna let this one person, whom obviously cares about following you than they care about themselves, have you out here going crazy?! Why should you care if someone doesn’t like you when they most likely don’t like their self? These girls want a reaction out of you because they want you to ruin your brand, dreams, and career. Negativity will always come, but if you feed it, the negativity will stay longer than it is supposed to. Even though this is probably one of the hardest things to do, you’re just gonna have to boss up and continue to be that strong, beautiful girl you are! YOU ARE A QUEEN👑 Don’t take off your crown for ANYBODY! You continue to grow mentally, physically, and spiritually. If they wanna watch and talk, let them! While they’re watching you grow, their growth will be stopped because they are so focused on you rather than their self! So, don’t worry, sweetie; you’re getting ahead in this “game.” Remember who you are! Remember you are beautiful! Remember you are great! And say ✌🏽 to the petty!
P.S. Don’t forget to tell yourself “Love You Self!”